✅ Reality: Civility doesn’t bridge divides or build belonging. It just helps people coexist politely.
Why does this matter? → “Civility” often asks people to stay comfortable rather than stay curious. It prioritizes tone over truth, and sometimes treats all viewpoints as equally valid, even when one denies another person’s basic rights.
Politeness has its place. But genuine inclusion requires action and the creation of conditions where everyone can show up safely and fully.